Residential fire is a very common disaster. Fires cause emotional distress as well as
physical damage. Fire threatens life and
property. They are unpredictable,
uncontrollable, and terrifying. Children
often are affected by what they see during and after a fire, whether or not
they are physically injured. The best
predictor of post- fire distress in children appears to be how frightening the
experience of the fire was and the extent of the loss (NCTSN, 2015). At the age of 6, my best friend, Rosalyn,
who was 7, lost everything in a house fire. Fortunately, everyone got out safely and there
was no loss of life nor did anyone suffer any physical injury. However, the months that followed were very
difficult for Rosalyn emotionally. She
had trouble sleeping due to recurrent dreams that caused her to relive the
night of the fire. She would wake
screaming for her mom and dad. Anytime
she heard a siren, she would become very frightened. She was also protective of her belongings
from that point on. She had lost
everything in the fire. She experienced increased worry about the safety of her family, friends,
classmates, teachers, neighbors, and herself.
She worried that there would be another fire. For months, she was irritable, sad, and had
trouble leaving her parents. She also
was absent from school more because of headaches and stomachaches. Her parents, family, church, and friends
helped her to cope. Her parents
reassured her and maintained normal structure and routines. They were understanding of her feelings. They were able to keep her in the same community
and school. The family also sought
counselling together. Their friends and
church came together and quickly helped them to replace their lost clothing and
toys for Rosalyn. The church provided
them with shelter while they waited for insurance claims and their home to be
rebuilt. Resources, counselling, and
their love for each other helped them to cope through this time of great stress. Eventually, Rosalyn and her family overcame
their emotional stress without any lasting effects on Rosalyn’s biosocial,
cognitive, and psychosocial development, but it took quite some time. If not for the support they received and strong
family bonds, the outcome could have been different.
Brain Synapses |
A fire undermines a family’s sense of safety.
Losing one's home and property can lead
to depression and elevated levels of distress, including post-traumatic stress
disorder (PTSD). Following a fire,
families may face financial hardship and medical problems. Parents may feel confused and frustrated as
they deal with insurance companies and disaster assistance agencies. Families should not underestimate the
cumulative emotional effects of evacuation, displacement, relocation, and/or
rebuilding. The physical and emotional
recovery process following a fire can be lengthy (NCTSN, 2015).
Child Abuse in Industrialized Nations
Almost 3,500 children under the age of 15 die from physical
abuse and neglect every year in the industrialized world. Two children die from
abuse and neglect every week in Germany and the United Kingdom, three per week
in France, four per week in Japan, and 27 per week in the United States . The
risk of death by maltreatment is approximately three times greater for infants than
for those ages one to four. The risk doubles for those ages five to fourteen. A small group of countries – Spain, Greece,
Italy, Ireland and Norway – appear to have an exceptionally low incidence of
child maltreatment deaths. Five nations including Belgium, the Czech Republic,
New Zealand, Hungary, and France have levels of child maltreatment deaths that
are four to six times higher than the average for the leading countries. Three
countries including the United States, Mexico, and Portugal have rates that are between 10 and 15 times
higher than the average for the leading countries. Poverty, stress, partner
abuse, as well as drug and alcohol abuse
appear to be the factors that are the most closely and consistently associated
with child abuse and neglect.
In addition to immediate pain and any long-term physical
damage, the maltreatment of children can weaken the ability to thrive and
develop normally. It can damage the ability to learn, to communicate, to form attachments,
and to interact normally with others. It can cause anxiety, depression,
aggression, and a lowered sense of self-worth. Obviously, it can and often does
result in severe psychological impairment and behavioral difficulties. Long-term effects include a greater tendency
to physical inactivity, tobacco use, alcohol and drug abuse, risky sexual
behavior, and suicide.
Strategies are in place to try to reduce and prevent child abuse in
industrialized nations, which include the appointment of children’s ombudspersons in several OECD countries,
the setting up of child help-lines, the growing sophistication and integration
of home visiting services, the increase in media coverage, and the closer
monitoring of children considered at risk. Specific instances showing of concern
include the campaign to combat all forms of violence recently launched by the
Council of Europe and the regular reports on child protection measures now
being provided by most industrialized countries to the United Nations Committee
on the Rights of the Child. Seven countries have banned spanking as a legal
form of discipline. What is the answer to reducing or preventing the
maltreatment of the world’s youngest and most vulnerable citizens? Is it in reducing poverty, strengthening and
supporting families, and/or banning spanking. UNICEF’S report (2003) quotes Neil Guterman, “We not only face a moral imperative to work
to end this all-too-common form of victimization and deprivation of our
youngest citizens. We also face a societal imperative, confronting us with the
reality that child abuse and neglect, particularly experienced early in life,
form the taproot of some of the most destructive and costly social problems of
our day, including substance and alcohol abuse, problematic school performance,
juvenile delinquency and crime, later-life depression, and domestic violence”
(p.19).
References
NCTSN. (2015). Retrieved from http://www.nctsn.org/trauma-types/natural-disasters/fires/residential-fires
UNICEF. (2003). “A league table of child maltreatment deaths in rich nations.”
Innocenti Report Card No.5. UNICEF Innocenti Research Centre, Florence. Retrieved from http://www.unicef-irc.org/publications/pdf/repcard5e.pdf
Shelia,
ReplyDeleteI am sorry to hear that you friend was in a house fire when she was little. In my blog I shared the stressor my little cousin was a part of which was a house fire. I am glad to here that her family made it out of the house safely. My little cousin lost her mother in the fire and she had burns on her legs. I talked about how the fire effected my cousin physically, but you discussed how a fire effects a child cognitively. Hearing sirens will scare them and children may have nightmares. I believe that stressor that children are exposed to can effect them in all areas of development.
I couldn't imagine losing everything as a child or even an adult due to a fire. This can be very traumatic and take a while for anyone to get through. I am glad they were able to get the resources they needed.
ReplyDeleteHi Sheila,
ReplyDeleteI do agree that residential fires can a huge amount of stress on young children. That is one event that is so tragic and can cause mental and physical damage. The story about your friend was so sad to hear, This is something that she will have to live with for the rest of her life and had to be a tragic experience for her. There is no real way to prevent fires besides being very careful with fire and your surroundings with it. Children should not have to go through anything like this or anyone for that matter.
Hi Sheila,
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing your friends story. House fires are a stress factor for children and adults alike. It is a blessing that your friends family was able to receive help and resources. It is unfortunate that they had to go through this but fortunate that they lived. It's good that the family went to counseling and tried to keep routines going to be as close to normal as possible. That helped some with dealing with the stress that comes when a tragedy like that occurs. That and as you said being a loving and supportive family to each other.